Week 17: Monday 28 Apr – May 4th

Run: 4hrs 36mins (35mi) / Gym: 32mins  / Crosstrain:  1hr 31mins

Managed to string together a pretty solid week, even if it felt like I was juggling flaming batons at times. Monday kicked off with a 5.5-mile evening run while my son trained—nice to piggyback my fitness onto his schedule, and a reminder that sometimes multitasking isn’t just a buzzword, it’s survival. Tuesday morning was a bleary-eyed weight session straight after dropping my daughter at early hockey. Honestly, getting under the bar before 7am should earn some sort of parenting medal. Wednesday’s run was steady, but heart rate crept up to 140bpm—nothing alarming, but enough to make me take mental note. Thursday evening called for a change of scenery—I was officially done with the usual loop, so I shook it up with a new route. Variety, if nothing else, keeps the legs (and brain) guessing. Friday was a scheduled rest day, though I squeezed in a short session of knee rehab in the afternoon—small steps, but important ones if I want longevity in this game. Saturday was a tale of two halves: an early morning ride with a mate, where after about an hour, that annoying abdominal pressure returned, like a hernia knocking on the door—not painful, but certainly uninvited. Ignored the grumble long enough to get through an afternoon run through the city and along the river. It was hot, but I locked in on cadence instead of heart rate, clocking an average of 171spm—trending the right way and feeling more fluid by the end. All in all, a week of training shaped by real life, but still moving the needle forward.

Week 16: Monday 21 – 27 April

Run: 6hrs 27 mins (47mi) / Gym (0 mins) / Crosstrain: 1hr 15 mins

Bank holiday Monday delivered the kind of start that makes the rest of the week feel like a bonus—out early for a long run that finally crept past the 14-mile mark, the first time in a while I’ve gone that far. Kept things disciplined with the heart rate locked around 135bpm, reminding myself that long doesn’t have to mean fast. Tuesday was a rest day—earned and embraced. Wednesday brought the usual 7.6-miler in the morning, but I pushed the pace a touch, edging closer to 8-minute miles. That came at a cost, with the heart rate nudging above 140bpm. I know it’s too soon to chase speed, but old habits die hard.

Thursday was a change of gear—literally. After finally replacing the rear cassette and front chainring on the indoor bike, I jumped on the turbo trainer for 40 minutes. Felt solid, and it’s good to have that option back in the mix. Friday morning, I squeezed in a river run—6.5 miles while my son trained nearby. HR was again creeping over the 140 mark, another reminder that patience isn’t optional, it’s essential.

Saturday was a solid combo: a straightforward 10k on foot followed by 30 minutes back in the saddle on the turbo. Sunday wrapped it all up nicely with a steady 12.5-mile run. All in all, a strong return to running volume, with just enough variety to keep it interesting. The body’s holding up, the legs are talking but not shouting, and I’m slowly learning to let progress come without dragging it by the collar.

Week 15: Monday 14 – 20 April

Run: 3hrs 11min (22miles)

Started the week with the usual Monday run, though it came in the evening this time—more out of necessity than preference—after a long day shackled to the desk. It was one of those deceptively short working weeks (just two days), but somehow that just compressed the chaos. Tuesday was all hands on deck trying to blitz the to-do list before escaping for a few days; no run, just the cardiovascular stress of deadlines and kids pinging around the house like pinballs. Wednesday brought a welcome shift—a family break to the Lake District, which meant a welcome return to slower rhythms and better views. Took the dog for a near-10k stretch along an old railway line, flat and forgiving, more of a moving meditation than a workout. Thursday was the highlight: a steady 8-mile loop around the lake, legs ticking over comfortably at just under 9-minute miles, the kind of run that feels like it resets more than it drains. From there, the rest of the week was given over to long walks, big skies, and big dinners—more nourishment for the soul than the Strava stats. A good reminder that not all training gains come from pounding pavements.

Wk 14: Mon 7 – 13 Apr

Run: 2hrs 59min (22miles) / Gym: 0mins / Crosstrain: 0mins

This week, training slipped into the background a little—which, all things considered, felt right. Monday evening brought the usual 5.5-mile run, a steady effort ahead of Tuesday’s funeral. Running helped ease the mind, even if only briefly. The rest of the week was shaped more by family rhythm than training structure. On Wednesday, I stayed home while my son got a lift to training, and Thursday’s session was cancelled—most of the squad off on holiday. Missing those two runs was a shame from a consistency point of view, but not something I’d trade. I was where I needed to be, and that’s a win in a different column.

Friday saw things click back into routine with a regular 10k. The legs felt decent, the mind clearer. Saturday was a rare unicorn of a day—no kids’ sport, no commitments. No run either, but the family time more than made up for it. Sunday I laced up again for a solid 10-miler. Kept a steady eye on the heart rate, but pushed just enough to avoid drifting into a lazy plod. Not a high-volume week, but a reminder that there’s strength in flexibility—and sometimes, just showing up is the biggest step forward.

Wk 13: Mon 31 Mar – Sun 6 Apr

Run: 4hrs 26mins (32 miles)  / Gym: 0mins  / Crosstrain: 0min

This week was less about chasing miles and more about maintaining balance—between family, training, and the emotional weight that’s been hanging around. No morning runs, deliberately. I wanted to be around when the rest of the house stirred—coffee, cereal, the usual scramble—because those moments matter too. Training was wedged into the margins, mainly during football practice with my younger son. Monday’s run was gentle, heart rate hovering at 128bpm, all about form and flow rather than speed. Same story midweek—Wednesday, Thursday, Friday—though I could feel the pace naturally ticking up a bit. Encouraging to see the body responding while still keeping the HR below 140. Saturday was all about my daughter and netball, and honestly, that kind of movement—the cheering, the chatting, the just being there—felt like training of a different kind. With funeral plans now mostly in place, I got out for a Sunday run at what I’m calling “late morning” (8:30am). Nothing flashy, just legs turning, lungs working, head a little clearer. A week where the miles mattered less than the reasons behind them.

Wk12: Mon 24 – 30 March

Run: 3hrs 16mins (24.4mi) / Gym: 0mins / Crosstrain: 0min

Morning runs still aren’t happening in the lead-up to the family funeral, so most of the running is squeezed in around football training with my younger son. Managed 5.5 miles this evening—somewhere between slightly too fast to be easy and not fast enough to be useful.

Mid-week I was in London supporting my eldest, which gave me the chance to run along the Thames on a crisp, sunny morning—always a lift. Then Friday brought a rare trip to the Lakes with friends, and I managed to shoehorn in a solid Sunday morning run around Derwent Water. One of those where the scenery does half the work for you.

Wk 11: Mon 17 – Sun 23 March

Run: 1hr 46min (14miles) / Gym: 0mins / Crosstrain: 0mins

This week was all about supporting where I could, with training taking a back seat Monday through Friday. It was a conscious decision—focus on the essentials, be there for my wife, and keep everything else secondary.

Friday evening, I finally laced up the shoes while my son was at coaching. It felt great to be moving again, legs waking up and shaking off the rust. It was like letting fresh air into a stuffy room.

Saturday was a long, calming walk with my wife and the dog. A slow, steady way to be present and share some quiet time. The run from the night before had felt fantastic, but support was still the priority.

Sunday afternoon brought another window of opportunity. While my wife was checking in with our eldest, I took off for a run. My legs felt rested, and I settled into that perfect groove—swift, relaxed, like everything was just clicking. I came home elated, the high of running coursing through me. Maybe it was the release of finally letting myself go again, even if only for a while.

Wk10: Mon 10 – Sun 16 March

Run: 5hr 52mins (44mi) / Gym: 0mins / Crosstrain: 1hr 5mins

This week’s training started off with a familiar rhythm. Monday kicked off with the usual morning run—7.8 miles of focused effort, where form was the priority. Upright posture, head up and eyes on the horizon, chest pushed forward, arms driving correctly, cadence kept punchy, aiming for that sweet spot of 175–185 steps per minute. I was so locked in on the mechanics that I ended up pushing harder than planned, finishing in just over an hour. The evening run followed the same mental checklist: head, chest, arms, cadence—rinse and repeat.

Tuesday was a rest day, but Wednesday had me back on the regular route, though the GPS oddly clocked it at 7.63 miles. I don’t remember cutting corners, but the pace was good, finishing just under the hour mark with the heart rate peaking around 145 bpm. Thursday was more of the same—sub-hour finish, mid-140s on the heart rate, clearly pushing too fast for aerobic base-building. But the form felt solid. The evening ‘football’ run at least brought some calmness, keeping the heart rate below 140 bpm.

And then came Friday. It started at 1:45 a.m. with the kind of knock on the door you dread. The police delivered the tragic news that we had feared for some time, but never really thought would come.  They left us to process the unimaginable. Running was no longer part of the equation. All that mattered was making sure my wife felt supported through her loss.

The weekend was a haze. Saturday and Sunday saw me taking the boys to Wembley for the cup final, trying to cling to some semblance of normality amid the chaos. Sunday morning, I managed to squeeze in an 8-mile run before the match, but the miles felt hollow—just moments carved out between grief and trying to keep everything together. Later that morning, I played an hour of touch rugby with an old school friend and his pals, and my two boys. It was chaotic, fun, and just what I needed.

This week was a reminder that life doesn’t follow training plans or personal goals. Sometimes, just showing up is all you can do, even if you really don’t know what to do or say.

Wk 9: Mon 3rd – Sun 9th March

Run: 7hr (51 mi) / Gym: 0mins / Crosstrain: 0 mins

Week 9 kicked off on Monday with a regular morning run where I nudged the pace up a notch, hoping my heart rate would still hover in the 130s (zone 2). It mostly did, but a niggle in the knee made itself known, likely aggravated by Sunday’s cold-start 5k. Tuesday was a battle against the 6.10am alarm, which I eventually conquered by 6.30am. I managed to push for two miles mid-run closer to marathon pace, which went okay but left me wondering if I could actually sustain that pace much longer. Wednesday was pure struggle — tiredness and workload teamed up to keep me grounded. I took the day off, reassuring myself there’s still plenty of time before the autumn marathon to build mileage and lock in that speed endurance.

Feeling fresher by Thursday, I cranked out a morning 7.6-miler by feel, pleased to find I was running faster without a significant spike in heart rate, although it did nudge into the 140s, hinting I might’ve been a touch too ambitious. The evening saw me clocking another 7 miles, this time zeroing in on running form after diving into Shane Benzie’s The Lost Art of Running. The book’s focus on harnessing the body’s natural elasticity through fascia was fascinating, and I tried to incorporate those elements of form, feeling noticeably quicker despite the heart rate creeping well into the 140s — hardly ideal for base building, but encouraging from a form perspective.

Friday was supposed to feature both a run and a gym session, but fatigue reared its head again. I settled for a shorter run in the morning and ditched the gym altogether in favor of rest. Saturday’s session was a satisfying 10-mile combo: a 3-mile warm-up, parkrun, and a 4-mile cool-down. The 5k felt sharper, though still a long way off from where I want to be. At least I’m giving my body fair warning ahead of the speed work scheduled to start in 10 days. Sunday was all about squeezing in a run before a rugby tournament trip to Sheffield with my eldest. Thanks to an early arrival and some Strava map wizardry, I managed to knock out nearly 6 miles, albeit spending the day marinating in my own sweat. All in all, a week where fatigue and motivation wrestled hard, but the miles are creeping up, and the foundation is being built.

Wk 8: Mon 24th – Sun 2nd Mar

Run: 4hrs 50mins (33mi) / Gym: 0mins / Crosstrain: 0min

This week was about striking a balance between training, family time, and recharging the batteries. Monday was a complete rest day—strange but necessary. I made good use of the downtime by booking my spot for the Yorkshire Marathon in October. Nothing like committing to a race to keep the motivation simmering in the background.

Tuesday, I was back to business with my usual just-under-eight-mile route. I pushed the pace a little, averaging just under 8:40 per mile, but the heart rate held steady. A good sign that the base is holding strong.

Wednesday was a write-off for running, but for good reason—frantically clearing the decks at work before heading off on holiday with the family for a few days. After last week’s heavy mileage, easing off felt like the right call, both physically and mentally.

Thursday was all about putting family time first. Instead of a run, we went for a long, easy 10-mile walk. No watch, no pace, just a relaxing morning. Probably did more good than any structured training session could have.

Friday was something special—a stunning nine-mile lake run with no watch, just blue skies, shimmering water, and the pure joy of running. Later that morning, I added a gentle four-miler with my wife, daughter, and dog. Less about pace, more about presence.

Saturday, I repeated the same lake run but in reverse, which somehow felt like a completely different route. Just a reminder that sometimes, the smallest changes in routine can completely shift your perspective.

Sunday, I missed parkrun yesterday but squeezed in a sharp 5K effort with a quick warm-down before taking my son to the football game. Probably not the smartest move—hitting 5K pace with no proper warm-up—but at least it got done.

A week of balance, family time, and a fresh reminder of why I love running.